A little clumsy view on the misfortune of women

Avoid sex and good words 2022-10-09 17:31

Hello, senior brothers, spring has arrived recently, everything has revived, the weather has gradually become hot, and the lust in our hearts has risen. In addition, more and more girls are wearing inappropriate clothes on the street. This is indeed a big challenge for all fellow practitioners on the way to abstain from sex. Recently, many senior brothers have also reported to me that there are frequent situations of breaking the precepts. The reason is that they encounter girls who are wearing inappropriate clothes, and then they can't extricate themselves, Amitabha, how to deal with problems with girls who are wearing inappropriate clothes, I want to share some of my own clumsy views.

The disaster of women is shameless. For girls who are exposed to clothes, we cannot change it from the perspective of abstinence. What we need to do is to strengthen the construction of our Great Wall of Abstinence and build our own psychological defense. For girls who are exposed to clothes, we are imaginative about them, and it is still a manifestation of our inadequacy. In the Great Compassion Lecture Hall, Teacher Miaoguang shared the specific method of "seeing" beautiful girls. However, when I want to add something, for senior brothers who are relatively high in the way to abstinence, this reverse method can be used. For us who are still at a lower level of abstinence, it is better to hide first. If the inner cultivation is not enough, just blindly watch the beauty practice concentration. It is inevitable to break the precepts. When abstinence has a certain level, and then accept a better method, I think there will be better results.

The obsession with women is actually greed, the manifestation of infatuation. There are more than tens of sexy and beautiful girls in the world. If we all go fantasize and go, then it will be not far from the collapse of the prostate. The cause of greed makes the beautiful girls we meet in life become greedy and want to take it for ourselves. The greed for each girl comes from our discriminatory heart. The disaster of women is nothing more than some meat growing in a specific place. Two taels of meat on the breast, which is nothing more than the composition of protein and fat. These meats are just lucky to grow on the breast, and when they grow on the belly, they become belly belly. They are also meat, but the places are different, and our attitudes towards meat are very different. It is called sexy on the breast, and when they grow on the belly, it is called big belly. Isn’t it ridiculous? The flesh on a woman's buttocks is no different from the pork we have seen. Will you commit adultery with a piece of back seat pork? The same principle is, the beautiful legs we call are exactly the same as the tissues and bones of the same man's thighs. So, if a man with thin legs wears stockings, do you have any lust? We ordinary people are too discriminatory and cannot see these clearly, so they have a strong greed for the so-called beauty, so they fall into the devil's way and cannot extricate themselves.

It is also obvious that infatuation is caused by the infatuation. We often see beautiful women, and our hearts are full of thoughts and fantasies. What about fantasy and fantasy. Then the so-called beautiful scene in our minds is imprinted in our deep minds. We don’t think about tea, don’t think about food, can’t sleep at night, and we are infatuated to see the beauty again. This is also the sorrow of ordinary people and ordinary people. The ignorant heart, such persistence is meaningless. This woman may not see her for the second time in life. The people and things you do for are meaningless, it is completely your own imagination. Some senior brothers even feel angry in their hearts and break the precepts. They are very sad because what you do is very meaningless and boring. Just like fantasy, you can’t get anything, think randomly, consume your energy, and then feel like you have taken advantage of it. They are complacent, very stupid and boring. Well, you still need to strengthen the improvement of your state of abstinence and see through the constraints of lust.

The affairs of men and women are only a small part of life, a very small part. We have many more meaningful things than these things. We should leave our attention away from those places and spend our time on the places we should use. I believe that we will further improve our realm in abstinence.

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