Elude makes you have no friends

Elude makes you have no friends

Many people who are committing adultery always feel wronged. Why do I treat this person so well but he is so narrow-minded and indifferent? Their personnel relationships around me are also very poor?

Actually, this is very simple.

First, you are empty in body and mind, lack of ability, have no influence, or have cold influence, why do others become your friends?

Second, there is a story that is well told.It is said that Zhang San and Li Si are friends.If you can’t finish the eggs that Zhang San brought for breakfast, you will give Li Si one.Later, Zhang San once again saw that Wang Wu was given to him before he had enough food, and Li Si was very unhappy because he was used to it.If you are too accommodating to others, the other party will get used to it. If you do something inappropriately, it may lead to dissatisfaction.Nowadays, many only children suffer less, so they feel uncomfortable if they have few grievances and discomforts, while many children from poor families feel that it doesn’t matter.During the process of sexual misconduct, your body is empty, or like a pool of mud, and you have no ability to interact with others mentally. Moreover, the negative energy of sexual misconduct on your body causes your body to smell, which indirectly affects others' views on you.

Third, a very important point is that you just put your energy into someone, and this person may not appreciate it, because you are weak and empty and have no status. Even if you give, it will be worthless in the eyes of others! This is very simple. A classmate once called me very excitedly and said that his master's supervisor and a doctoral supervisor came to attend his wedding.Why? Because the other party has a high status and high value.What is the value of a person who commits sexual misconduct?

When I was committing adultery, I was once good to someone, but later he always picked the blame and asked me: What did you pay!

Now that I think about it, I suddenly realize that a gentleman’s friendship is as light as water, especially when dating colleagues. It’s better to not repay you. Don’t always think about too deep friendship.True friends gradually interact with each other through their own efforts.Moreover, friends are not relatives, and brothers may turn against each other. Why do you put your hope on others? The problem is that many people who commit adultery always focus their energy on some meaningless people because of loneliness and weakness.Instead of doing this, it is better to spend this money and energy on releasing animals, exercising, respecting parents, and doing your own things well!

Fourth, I do not deny the importance of friends, but a person’s circle of friends is destined to be maintained by his own abilities.Just take a closer look.Taking the simplest thing as an example, many small circles and entertainment venues in the imperial capital are aristocratic, and you can't get in even if you have money.There are also some small circles where you can’t get a membership card without hundreds of thousands or millions.

People who commit adultery are physically and mentally empty and cannot be excited at all. How can they talk about attractiveness? Therefore, there is basically no good circle of people.Because people in a circle are always people with similar interests

Therefore, quit sexual misconduct, focus on work and study and positive energy, and don’t worry too much about what others think.