Chat for a day and make a dish 005 Ren Yunli’s Tomato Noodle Soup

---Recipe owner Ren Yunli---

Ren Yunli，Editor-in-chief of a food magazine. He has been the editor-in-chief of "Betai's Kitchen" for more than ten years. Now he makes salt gourmet dishes by himself. MOOK Book Series "Salt" Salt》， Three books have been published so far, and the next one is about vegetarianism and will be released soon.We have been paying attention to each other for many years, and we have also had some cooperation, such as writing recommendations for her books. Later, the publisher probably wanted to give me money, called "pen money". That was the first time I knew that I was paid for writing recommendations, and it was so little. Hahahaha (so I replied: "Help, no need." ”I just discussed this matter with Yunli, and she said she didn’t know anything about it. Okay ）。

Sorry, our previous communication was too businesslike.。

---cook a dish---

tomato noodle soup

Foods you want to eat when you are sick

Everyone has a taste in their memory, especially the food they ate when they were sick in childhood, which will accompany every illness in the future. Life In the big bangSheldon Every time you are sick you have to drink soup, which must contain cut peas, sausages and fried bread.Someone needs to singSoftKitty， He needs someone to wipe him with a sponge. These habits belong to the child who will never grow up and needs to be taken care of.

The memory of the editor-in-chief of the food magazine is also simple and warm. Ren Yunli grew up in Zhengzhou. This noodle dish has local home-style characteristics. It is a noodle for one person, with two tomatoes as a base, seasonal vegetables, and fungus and day lily. She has been in poor health since childhood, and until now, whenever she feels unwell, she misses this bowl of noodle soup.

Each family has its own way of making noodle soup. In the south, clear soup is used, while in the north, mixed soup is used. For clear soup, the soup base is prepared first, and then the cooked noodles are directly added to the soup, so that the noodles are distinct. To mix the soup, stir-fry it in a pot first, and then add water. After the water boils, add the noodles directly into the soup. The starch on the surface of the noodles spreads into the soup, and the water and milk gradually blend. After cooking, fill a bowl with the soup and vegetables. The starch makes the soup thick, and no one can distinguish the noodles, soup, and vegetables. I prefer this bowl. The soup has adhesion and can warm every corner of the intestines and stomach.

--Ingredients--
tomato2indivual

Dried fungusSeven or eight flowers

Dried yellow flowers10Around the root

cowpeaa handful

garlicseveral petals

oniona paragraph

vermicellione person

Oil1big spoon
Salt1small spoon

sugar1/2small spoon

white pepper1/2small spoon

salt and pepper A little (optional)

sesame oil1small spoon

--practice--

1Cut vegetables

△Wash 2 tomatoesnet，Cut into four, cut off the hard core, then cut into two

△Remove the cowpeasheadTail, cut into 5 pieces cm aboutlongpart.

△Peel the garlic and smash into pieces.

△Dice green onions.

△Soak day lily and fungus in advance, mediumbetweenCome and have a knife,

fungusSeeResize the knife appropriately.

2 saute

 △Fry the hard-to-cook cowpeas in advance.

The pot is hotAdd oil, add green onions and stir-fry until fragrant, then add cowpeas and stir-fry over low heat.

thisThe first step is to fry the cowpeas completely.PassAdd less during the processXu YanguiCowpeas are delicious,

Can be added appropriatelypotbuildHelps cook quickly.

If using other green leafy vegetables, just add them in before the noodles are cooked.

△No need to brush the pot, continue to add some oil, stir-fry the garlic over low heat until fragrant.

Ren Yunli is used to adding more garlic because she felt that eating cooked garlic is good for her stomach since she was a child.

Every family has its own habits.

△Add tomatoes and stir-fry for a while, then add fungus and yellow flowers and stir-fry together.

Add some salt to help the tomatoes come out of the sand.

Add some sugar to neutralize the sour taste of tomatoes.

Fry until the tomato surface becomes a little fuzzy and sandy.

3 cook

△Add boiling water to the pot just enough to cover the tomatoes.

△Let the water boil for a while, then manually lift out the tomato skins piece by piece.

（This operation is very special and makes cooking noodles full of fun)

△Then put the noodles in and cook together.

△Cook until the noodles are half cooked, add the fried cowpeas and cook together.

4seasoning

△Add more white pepper, add more to warm your stomach, the editor is very generous with the seasonings ~

If there is salt and pepper, add some salt (if not omitted), taste the saltiness and add salt appropriately.

（I've added salt twice before.People who don’t know how to count with their hands should know something in their hearts.）

Pour sesame oil, turn off heat and remove from pan.

△Serve it in a bowl and display it beautifully ~

Here are the beans with a sense of order, and there are tomatoes that retain the texture of large chunks.

The red soup is already extremely rich.

The presentation of the editor's noodle soup is also very nice.

Sour and thick soup with a faint peppery flavor

 When I was sick, I always drank porridge.

I can only drink porridge

And you?

---Chat all day---

I have always thought that Editor-in-Chief Ren is a woman of the new era, but after chatting with her today, she discovered that she is clearly a confused little princess. Today, I completely dominated the conversation, which was unexpected. The topic started with marriage, and she had just ended her second marriage recently.

Q1：What is marriage to you?

Ren Yunli:Both times were failed marriages, so…

noob:So do you think there are successes and failures in marriage?

Ren Yunli:Of course, the final result is bad, that is, failure. In my imagination, marriage has a family atmosphere and the support of a partner.

noob:Is there a standard that should be relatively perfect in all aspects?

Ren Yunli:There is an expectation, so I don’t pay much attention to the process. I just hope that the result will be good.

noob:What about the process?
Ren Yunli:It was pretty good at the beginning.

noob:You just threw away the process, classmate. In fact, the process is quite good, right?

Ren Yunli:But there are some things that I don’t want to face and I just want to run away from them. I’m good at escaping.

noob:Then you haven't made any progress from your first marriage.

Ren Yunli:No progress, indeed.

noob:Hahahahahaha

Ren Yunli:But personally, I have grown a lot since my first marriage ended, and I have to face some things.

noob:Just less reliance? Are you actually a dependent person?

Ren Yunli:Well, the first paragraph is like this, and the second paragraph is much better. What is marriage to me? In fact, I didn’t think about it too clearly. I avoided thinking about it from beginning to end.

noob:Face it and think about it. In fact, you avoid it because you think it will be uncomfortable. People instinctively don't want to make themselves uncomfortable, and then they keep hiding. But you still have to think about it. Only when you face pain can you grow. In fact, you are quite girly.

Ren Yunli:Well, that's what I think in my heart. It's quite childish, and I feel that I am terrible for making such a choice.

Q2: You don’t have any expectations for marriage, but do you have expectations for your career?

Ren Yunli:In terms of career, I just let nature take its course. It was like that in the workplace before, but things changed after I came out.

noob:Do you feel any pressure to support your team now? I have the impression that you are not so Buddhist.

Ren Yunli:There will also be some, basically it is based on my own expectations, but it has also changed. I used to have an expectation when I was in a position. Later, when I gradually face different people and some uncontrollable situations, I can only do the basic things well. If there are some opportunities, it is impossible to have high expectations. If everything fails, then I will not be sad.

noob:It has changed. It was in one state when it first came out, and now it is in another state.

Q3: Are you happy then?

Ren Yunli:At this moment?

noob:This latest paragraph.

Ren Yunli:Recently, I have stepped into the role of a mother during the summer vacation. The self-media summer vacation is also the off-season. I am basically on vacation and have to take care of the children.

noob:So do you enjoy your role as a mother?

Ren Yunli:I'm not very good at being a mother, and I feel like I didn't teach my children well. The children are also quite willful, and I didn't give them any principles when they were young.

noob:It's quite willful and needs to be managed.

Ren Yunli:How to manage?

noob:You ask me? I've only ever had dogs. Hahahaha, study.

Ren Yunli:This is my problem, I am not very principled.

noob:Reflect on it, if you don’t have strong principles, you will still marry someone in the future, hahaha.

Ren Yunli:This may be the result of my consistent avoidance. If I can't solve it, forget it. The role of mother is not very good either.

noob:Today's answer was beyond my expectation. Only now do I realize that you are actually a little princess.

Ren Yunli:It has something to do with growing up in childhood. I was born with poor health, and my family was used to it and didn’t care much about it.

noob:But there’s no sign of being pampered on you.

Ren Yunli:No? If the people around me don't tolerate me, I will get angry.

noob:I have always felt that you are very good at taking care of others. Did you gain experience in a company?

Ren Yunli:Taking care of others is an external thing, but if others don't take care of me, I won't be able to accept it.

noob:But you are hiding it, maybe you have blocked me in your heart several times, but you haven't said it out loud, right? Look at you, your current expression shows that something like this has indeed happened.

Ren Yunli:you? Yes, you are the more willful one among my friends, and you are not the kind to give face. Hahahahaha, but I think this is good. You are relatively straightforward and can save the cost of our communication.

（I decided to list all the noodles I had given to her and ask her to submit them. *3Second-rate +、interview *2Second-rate +、Public welfare classroom *2time, platform *1Times, hum!）

noob:Hahahaha. It turns out that I have been offended several times. Look at your expression (Try to hide the embarrassment but tell yourself to be honest）But I treat everyone like this.

Ren Yunli:I think you are like this to everyone, you have your principles.

noob:I have recently begun to feel that it is good to be a person who takes care of others if I have the ability, but I didn't feel this way before.

Ren Yunli:Is it because you don’t need much care yourself?
noob:This may be the reason. The main reason is that I used to feel that I was separated from the world. I was an individual and others were other individuals. In fact, it is not like that. We are connected.

Q4：About escaping

noob:Have you been experiencing pain recently? For example, divorce.

Ren Yunli:After a while, after completing the formalities and adding in some other things, I started to wonder how I could have made such a bad choice.

noob:Can you describe your pain?
Ren Yunli:I didn't get out of bed for a week. I just lay there in a daze and didn't eat.

noob:This isI was broken up in love, hahahaha, but I got better later?

Ren Yunli:Later, I lowered my expectations a little bit.

noob:I think the best solution is to find a way to make yourself accept it calmly, or in other words, not to have expectations whether you encounter something that is countless times lower than your expectations or something that is countless times more than your expectations. Because it is impossible for people to live a smooth life and then die, I think it is impossible. It's impossible for me anyway, my life is already very dramatic, but those may just be the beginning. I've been through a lot of pain, but I've never run away.
Ren Yunli:So how do you face it?
noob:Find out what is causing you pain and solve it. For example, a lot of pain comes from wanting something and then not getting it. This is relatively common.

Ren Yunli:How to solve it?
noob:Don't "want" it.

Ren Yunli:Wouldn’t that just lower expectations? I used to hope to have a traditional family and partner, but wouldn’t it be fine to live on my own without these?
noob:I think your lowering of expectations may be to protect yourself from being hurt. It's not a completely acceptable state. It's okay to have it, and it's okay to not have it. OK， It’s more difficult, and I can’t do it now, but I will accept it from a rational point of view, because my three views have changed.
Ren Yunli:Will such a big change happen?

noob:Rebuilding every minute.

noob:In fact, you are not happy.

Ren Yunli:Um.

noob:What makes you happy?

Ren Yunli:Being needed and loved makes me happy。

confused girl

noob:Being needed and loved are two opposites, one is giving and the other is giving. You are trying to create an intimate relationship.

Ren Yunli:Is longing for intimacy, all kinds of intimacy.

noob:In fact, you tend to communicate "carefully" with others.
Ren Yunli:Of course, I am a very silent person under normal circumstances, but sometimes I am required to act at work. If you want to be a protagonist, you have to keep asking yourself to speak and express. But I really don’t like this. I don’t like talking, but my job makes me talk all the time.
noob:Then you must be tired because you are doing something you don’t enjoy, so what do you enjoy?
Ren Yunli:I enjoy being by myself.

noob:Do you know what your problem is? There is so little time alone in this life! You should give yourself more space to be alone and get along with yourself, and you will discover different things. You are actually a very "traditional" "new era woman" who got married early, has a stable and good job, and has children. However, some people grow up earlier than others. In fact, it's time for you to grow up.
Ren Yunli:Actually, this is the case. My friend said that I am only 24 years old.

noob:You have been quite passive. You will get married and have children when the time comes. You have been pushed by the times. It is time to take the initiative.

Ren Yunli:Always passive, yes. So what are my options? I'm really used to it!

noob:Not only are you being passive, you are being dishonest with yourself.

Ren Yunli:I might be, so how honest should I be.

noob:Don’t do anything you don’t like, try this first.

Ren Yunli:In relationships too, I don’t like her that much, but that’s it. . .

noob:Is it a sacrifice?
Ren Yunli:At the time, I didn’t feel that the sacrifice was very big.

noob:What now?

Ren Yunli:regret.

noob:No principles.

Ren Yunli:Just unprincipled.

noob:If I want to do something, can I make it happen by forcing you?
Ren Yunli:OK. Now I know the problem but don't know what to do.

noob:Studying, now that you know the problem and you are not going to move forward, just pick up your feet and take a step forward.