Behind every character there is cause and effect, and behind every defect is suffering.In life, many people often involuntarily say complaining.
In fact, all resentment, whether it is self-pity or complaining about others, is called evil words in Buddhism, and it is caused by anger.People who often complain are actually damaging their own blessings.What consequences will be caused by complaining about others?The heart will become darker and darker.If your heart is dark, you will keep bad things and have no chance of good things.Some people, when their careers and life are not going well, they will complain about their colleagues, their families, even their country, and their society.There is only one person who doesn’t think of complaining, that is himself.So, how to relieve the complaining mentality?Say more words of gratitude.In addition, you must learn to rejoice, and replace anger and jealousy with a rejoicing heart.Some people think this way: I know these principles, but I just can't stand this person.He is not as good as me in every aspect as I do. Why can he get these things he shouldn't get?We can't stand others because of some of the language, behaviors, and personalities of others that make us uncomfortable.However, we forget that behind every character there is cause and effect, and behind every defect is suffering.Because we have no compassion, when faced with other people's sufferings, we do not feel compassion, and we are all angry.For example, in a company, when everyone is together, someone may have a little worse ability or have more bad habits, so we are unwilling to tolerate him, and even reject him and hate him. If we want to get rid of it, it is actually caused by anger.You don’t know that his family may be very poor, he may not receive enough family education, and he has lived a hard life, so why bother hurt him again?In such a situation, he should be given more love and care.Everything is cause and effect.What others get today is the good deeds he has created in the past;You did not get it because you did not create this karma in the past.If you get it today, you don’t have to be proud. That is the good karma you created in the past, and now you are suffering.If you want to make your future better and be jealous of others,It will definitely not be good to come;If you rejoice in others and rejoice in merits, then you will have this merit. If you have also created good deeds, your future will be better.Buddhism believes that rejoicing with others is to create good deeds and accumulate blessings.
