Do such a Buddhist marriage still need to continue?

Do such a Buddhist marriage still need to continue?

2017In 2019, an online word became popular, and that was Buddhism.I went there specifically, and the above is introduced as follows: The meaning of Buddhism is a way of living and lifestyle that pursues peace and indifference in one's inner self.Most things want to be done in the way and pace you like.Buddhist vocabulary extends many words, such as: Buddhist youth, Buddhist parents, Buddhist love, Buddhist marriage, etc.

My friend Reiko told me about her Buddhist marriage.

Reiko and Qiangzi have been married for four years, and the baby has just been seven months old.Since falling in love, the relationship between the two people is different from other couples. They usually work on their own and only meet on weekends.Sometimes it is troublesome to say good night on WeChat.Such love can be called Buddhist love, let it go, and the wind is light and the clouds are quiet.

She married Qiangzi, as if she was completing a task. When she was old, it was time to get married.Even when they first got married, the two of them were not as close as newlyweds.Except for sleeping in the same room, the two of them do their own things when they are all sleeping, and even eat according to their own preferences.

Reiko is a woman who is used to being independent and does not feel that there is any problem with this.In this way, she began a Buddhist marriage with Qiangzi.

However, with the arrival of the child, this Buddhist marriage without desires and no desires appeared.When she was pregnant, Reiko mostly went for prenatal check-ups alone. She thought she could do it, and there was no need to force Qiangzi to do it, and Qiangzi was also happy and relaxed.

After the child was born, Reiko became a full-time housewife, and was responsible for washing clothes, cooking and taking care of the children. In addition to giving money, Qiangzi completely became a hand-off manager. When he got home from work, he would go to the study and start playing online games, and ignored Lingzi and the children.The child cried every night, and it was difficult for Reiko to have a good sleep. The mental and physical torture made Reiko almost collapse.One night, the child suddenly kept crying. Lingzi kept walking around holding the child. Later, she was so tired that she went to the study room next door to play games and Qiangzi was very excited to help. Qiangzi didn't raise his head and said, "Didn't you see me playing games?"This will be the critical moment." Reiko suddenly lost control of her emotions and threw the computer to the ground like crazy.

Before this, no matter how hard or tired she was, she had no complaints. But this time, she felt that she was both tired and confused. She was obviously married and had children, but there was no one behind her. Her husband had never stood beside her and gave her care and love.And she thought she could pursue a transcendent self in marriage without desires and desires.But this kind of Buddhist marriage eventually hurts me.

“The Buddhist label is not a mockery, but three parts of ridicule and seven parts of calm self-dissolving.

Buddhas in religion have their own beliefs, not passively escape, but transform reasonable desires into positive energy!

Marriage is the same. When two people come together, they are not just another individual, but a husband and wife. Only when the two work together, support each other and achieve each other can life be warm and peaceful.