Master Da'an: How to influence your family to learn Buddhism

Master Da'an: How to influence family membersLearn Buddhism

Layman: As soon as the disciple comes into contactPure Land Dharma，At oncejoyBelieve in it and try every means to introduce it to family members who have never been exposed to Buddhism, but their families are not interested in the preaching books and CDs given by their disciples. They either refuse to watch it or say they don’t have time to read it.What should disciples do?

Master Da'an: You come into contact with the Pure Land Method and gain physical and mental benefits through chanting Buddha's name. You also hope that your family can also believe in the Pure Land Method. This mind is good, but you must observe the seasons.cause，Do not act rashly.Generally, people who have not been influenced by Buddhism have long had a negative evaluation of religion and have deep misunderstandings, so you enthusiastically send him a CD of Buddhist books to him. It is conceivable that he is not interested. Due to the sympathy, he may also discuss how you engage in religious superstition behind your back.Therefore, you should not act too rush, but should guide you slowly.Let him understand Buddhism from a knowledge perspective first, and don’t believe it as soon as he comes up.PracticeThe color is too strong.Because they may think that there will be many restrictions on my acceptance of Buddhist belief.If my career and enterprising spirit are gone and I will study Buddhism in this competitive era, my job may be gone. He has many doubts, and of course he will refuse for various reasons.

Therefore, you should be skillful and convenient, first talk about the benefits of learning Buddhism to the world, such as learning Buddhism can make your heart calm.wisdomDevelopment, good health, and studying Buddhism can help us do things better. Induce them in this regard and take it slowly.Want family membersOpportunityIf you haven't arrived, just wait patiently.First of all, you must study Buddhism according to the Dharma, uphold the three blessings of pure karma, improve your spiritual character, and improve your overall quality.When your family sees that you have improved in all aspects through learning Buddhism, they will develop a good impression of the Buddhist teachings you have learned and will have the idea of getting in touch with them.If you learn Buddhism,troubleIf you don’t do a good job in life, your family will not listen to you.If a person can spread the Tao, it is not the Tao that spreads people.As long as you study Buddhism sincerely and pray for the compassion and blessing of Amitabha Buddha, you will eventually influence your family to study Buddhism together.