After reading it, you will never quarrel again! A secret to keeping your family from quarrels!

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arts /Old Monk Miaolian

I'll tell you a joke now. In fact, this is a true fact and it also teaches you how to survive this life in the world.  

It is said that there are two neighbors in the world. The family on the left is noisy and has trouble every day. Not only does the couple and children quarrel with each other, but sometimes children will quarrel with their parents. There are so many noises that everyone is annoyed! The neighbor next door is a family with loving parents and filial children, and is a very happy family.  

The noisy neighbor's house, one day, came to visit the neighbor's house: "We have a lot of noise in our house, why are you so happy? Not only did I not listen to you making noise, I didn’t even speak loudly. What’s the secret? Please teach us how to change the troubles in our family. ” 

“Actually, nothing is it! But if you have to say it, you will say it, your family is all good people, and my family is all bad people! ” 

“What does this mean? ” 

“Your parents, children and brothers are together, and you do the wrong things, you do the right things, and I do the right things. Your family thinks that you are a good person, but if you do something wrong, you blame others for it. And in our family, if things are done wrong, I do it. You are not wrong, I am wrong, I am sorry! That's it. ” 

A person is not afraid of you doing something wrong, he is not a sage!Who is not at fault?If you are wrong, you have to admit your mistake. The most fear of not admitting one’s mistakes is the most fearful thing, and also saying that others are wrong. In this way, not only brothers quarrel, but even mother, daughter, father and son will quarrel.  

The friendly family said, "I am a bad person, and I do it if I do something wrong! ”Do you think this is a bad person? The noisy house often says: “I am a good person, and he does it all if he does something wrong!”Do you understand this philosophy? 

Old Monk Miaolian

For example, it seems that after half of a cup of tea, my brother put it on the side of the table. The little brother touched the cup roughly and rudely, and his hands were burned.  

The brother scolded him: "Why did you smash my cup? ”The younger brother said, “Why don’t you put the cup well? ”The two started arguing.  

If the brother sees his younger brother smashing the cup, he will say, “Did this water burn you? It's all my fault that I didn't make it right. ”My younger brother also said, "It was all my fault that I broke the cup by accident. I'm sorry! ”Isn’t the world peaceful?  

Everything has cause and effect, and there is also a present cause and effect:If you blame others for being bad, they will blame you too；If you condemn yourself for doing something wrong, then people will tolerate you any mistakes.If everyone keeps this concept in dealing with people and things, then you will be peaceful all over the world. 

Don’t just know how to recite the Buddha’s name and Guanyin Bodhisattva, “The mind is the Buddha, and the Buddha is the mind”! Calm your heart first ； Just chanting his Buddha, the Buddha in your heart will not be able to be settled. If you are uneasy in your heart, the more you recite the Buddha's name, the more you become, the more trouble you become.  Take everything back and don’t blame others.This is really knowledge! 

Everyone wants to get treasures when they go to the mountain. They need to take treasures of Buddhism, and they must not take treasures in the world.In the world,“Admit your mistake" is the most precious treasure in dealing with the world；It is the most annoying thing to do wrong things and not admit your mistakes.Remember it!The old monk gives you this treasure today.

Finally, please give this Dharma to your friends. The more Dharma you give, the greater the merits you will be. You will benefit yourself and others, so that more people can also sow good roots, and you will also gain immeasurable merits!

On every day without copying scriptures or eating vegetarian food,

All are a kind of disappointment to life!

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