Do not say these words

Do not say these words

The ancients said: Disaster comes from the mouth, keep your mouth in mind!

Many times, people are often good at forgetting the benefits of others to themselves, but once they experience unintentional offense, they are always upset, which turns into not being prone to speculation, or even not interacting with each other when they die.Think about whether there are such examples around us. In life, we must inevitably interact with others. If you want to have a happy life, you must handle your relationship with the people around you.

Keep your mouth in mind, don't say these words:

1、Don’t judge others’ good or bad, because they don’t affect your meal.

2、Don’t evaluate other people’s virtues, because you may not be nobler than him.

3、Don't evaluate other people's families, because that has nothing to do with you.

4、Don’t evaluate other people’s knowledge, because what is most lacking in the world is knowledge.

5、Don't judge anyone, even the one you look down upon the most.

6、Don't hurt others, cause and effect will come sooner or later.

7、Don't lose your temper at will, no one owe you.It's very painful now. When you look back a while, you will find that it's actually nothing.We often complain that life is unfair to us, but in fact life doesn’t know who we are…

8、Don’t discuss who is good or bad in practice. Practice is an individual, and others are your mirror, reflecting your shortcomings, and cultivating yourself in the shortcomings.

You must remember three sentences in your life, "Look at people's strengths, helping others with difficulties, and remembering others' benefits."

1. Depend on people's strengths

No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings. If you always focus on other people’s shortcomings, your relationship will definitely not be good. On the contrary, learn to think from the perspective of others and look at other people’s strengths, and you will find that the more you look at others, the more you like others, you will be able to get along well with others and know how to use people’s strengths.A single branch is not spring, but a hundred flowers bloom in the garden.Only those who know how to get along with others can achieve success.If you know how to use people's strengths, you will have the qualities of a leader.

2. Helping others is difficult

It is to extend your helping hand when others are in trouble. It may be a slight effort or a certain amount of effort. As long as you can, it is better to add icing on the cake. It is better to provide timely help.

If you help someone when he is in a happy spring breeze, he may not remember you.If you help others when they are in trouble, they will remember you for the best of your life.When you are in trouble, others will also help you, and your path will become wider and wider.For example, some things that often encounter in life, such as illness and hospitalization, weddings and fun events, natural disasters and man-made disasters, etc., your help, your greetings, or even a text message, will be like the warm spring feng feng, completely narrowing the psychological distance between each other.

3. Remember the benefits

It means always being grateful.You should know that from birth to death, every little progress and every bit of harvest, is inseparable from the help of parents, family and friends.Only by always remembering the goodness of others can you have sunshine every day, friends will accompany you every day, and happiness will be with you for life; on the contrary, always remembering what others are wrong will only make you suffer.