7 places where you must be vigilant when you quit sex!

1. Be careful when you are alone

When we are alone, because there are no others, we are very likely to indulge ourselves and commit adultery.Therefore, the ancients advocated "be careful of being alone", that is, when you are alone, you should be extra cautious, and you should know that "there are gods on your head", "If you want others not to know, you should not do it unless you do it yourself", "there is no good at all", and when you are alone, we should keep ourselves clean, do good and eliminate evil, and improve our cultivation.

2. Be cautious in public places

There are a large number of erotic men appearing in public places, some of which are painted and exposed in their clothes, which inevitably makes people have evil thoughts.For those who commit adultery, these places are mine arrays and swamps, which will fall into them if you are not careful, resulting in the resurrection of the old state and the rebirth of evil desires.Therefore, try not to go to these places. If you have to go, you should enter the battlefield and protect your own roots (eyes, ears, nose, tongue, sounds and meanings) so as not to let the external environment stir up your unruly "heart".

3. Be cautious when contacting the opposite sex

For those who commit adultery, dating with the opposite sex is a "difficulty".Because, because of the heavy lust habits, we are very likely to have insignificant thoughts about the opposite sex we usually interact with.Therefore, the Buddha warned us that when communicating with the opposite sex, we should “check our minds” and we must not indulge our evil thoughts, so as not to cause unnecessary embarrassment or even create irreparable sins.

4. Be cautious when making friends

“Birds of a feather flock together.”Those who commit adultery are already sexy. If they make friends with each other, they will be more depraved.Therefore, "no friends are worse than yourself", trying to make some "high-end" friends is an excellent help for you to quit adultery.Of course, whoever you are will meet.To make good friends, be a good person first.

5. Be cautious when gathering together to chat

When gathering to chat, the crowd is often excited and everyone is spitting and having a lot of fun.At this time, we are inevitably infected and participate in it and say a lot of gossip that is hard to tell.However, sometimes some topics are unhealthy in themselves, or as they are chatting about healthy topics, they become dissipated and colored, especially some obscene words, which sound like a red face, a terrifying heart, and a burning desire.Therefore, wise people should be alert from the beginning. What else can this meaningless chat bring to us besides promoting lust and increasing evil karma?！Sometimes silence is gold.

6. Be careful when you are free

Fill and warm, think about lust.In our spare time, we often feel bored, need excitement, and need some fun.In this case, it is very dangerous and you will be "pornographically involved" if you are not careful.Therefore, how to arrange your spare time well and make your free time more fulfilling and meaningful is a problem that those who abstain from sexual misconduct have to face.For example, on weekends, invite a few friends to go to nearby temples to burn incense and worship Buddha, repent of karma, etc.

7. Be cautious when browsing online

The information on the Internet is diverse and mixed with many dregs.I originally wanted to search for information online, but some erotic pictures suddenly popped up, saying that people can't defend themselves.Nowadays, mobile phones can also access the Internet, and the negative impact of the Internet is even more ubiquitous.It is believed that 99.9% of adulterers have used the Internet to seek "stimulation" and encourage adulterers.

Therefore, for those who commit adultery, you need to be highly cautious about surfing the Internet!Maybe, today you read an article about quitting sexual misconduct online, which is very good, but at the same time I also browsed 10 low-level corrupt articles and 5 spam videos, 15 to 1.Therefore, how to use the Internet to quit adultery while not being contaminated by obscene network information is a strategic problem.Perhaps, surfing the Internet less and reading more good books will help us to quit adultery.

May everyone successfully abstain from sexual misconduct, Amitabha!