In a person's life, never break two things.

Ah, Confucius said, abandoning the old and taking the young, no matter the old only cares about the misfortune of the child's family, now the whole world does not emphasize filial piety, the old man is very pitiful, in the nursing home, and then the child becomes more and more arrogant, becoming a small emperor and empress dowager, and a family has no filial piety to inherit, this family is bound to lose, so the family is not auspicious but very valuable, China has passed the law on the protection of the rights and interests of the elderly, emphasizing that children should fulfill filial piety, which is not such legislation in the world, from these signs, it can be seen that the 21st century is the century of Chinese, as long as filial piety is not emphasized, all mankind has no future, why because filial piety is the origin of love, people do not understand how to love others, how can he be happy in life, how can human beings have a future, but the origin of love Filial piety is the root of virtue, filial piety comes first, without filial piety, this family will be defeated, one of the most important virtues of our Chinese nation is to respect the elderly, love the elderly, respect the elderly, from the Xia, Shang and Zhou traditions have been passed down for thousands of years, but now this is not done well, we must understand that the elderly have dedicated their lives to the family and society, disrespecting the elderly is called ungrateful, there are no old people, there are no descendants, there are no efforts of the elderly, how can there be modern achievements, and the elderly have a very rich wisdom and experience in life, so those who respect the elderly can inherit these precious wisdom and experience, and people are always cultivated blessings, and he can cultivate a long life worthy of our respect, so people's blessings are divided into three kinds, which can be taught to our children We are grateful to the old man for dedicating his life, we respect the old man, and then inherit his wisdom and experience, and a person makes friends who are many years older than him, or even twice or twice as old, such a person must be more mature than people of the same age, you can observe carefully, so respectfully, great blessings, arrogance and contempt, the old man's blessings are very large, we often say that a family is a big tree, grandparents are the roots of the big tree, parents are branches and leaves, children are fruits, fruit farmers are fertilizing on the roots, spraying medicine on the fruit, only by fertilizing the roots, the fruit can have enough nutrition, and spraying medicine on the fruit can prevent the fruit from growing worms, we should care more for the elderly, and educate more children to educate a person, when filial piety to his parents The children also see it, parents lead by example, filial piety and respect are the best role models for children to grow, children know filial piety through the actions of their parents, in a family, if parents are filial to the elderly, then the children will be filial to their parents, the family can be with the beauty of the Chinese, often say that filial piety is the first step of kindness, a person remains grateful to his parents, learn to love them, on this basis, can go further to love others, if a person does not even love his own parents and relatives, then this person will never be kind to others, filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, it is the first step for all Chinese to cultivate morality, the first step to learn kindness, filial piety is the origin of goodness, there is no filial piety at all, this family Not far from the fall, there is a joke on the Internet, today's young people are paying more and more attention to health preservation, they hold a thermos cup in their left hand, holding a goblet in their right hand, beer with wolfberry cola with codonopsis, the most expensive mask, and the longest night, in fact, this is also a portrayal of reality, because indeed, more and more people have begun to buy health care products, anti-aging skin care products, foot soaking powder, health tea, but everyone is paying attention to external health preservation, but ignoring the emotional health preservation method, finding a person who makes you comfortable is better than all health products, and being with comfortable people is the best health care relationship, you must have had such an experience, when you are with some friends, you will feel comfortable and casual, time is always unconscious As time passes, no matter how dark the clouds in my heart are, it seems to be dispelled in an instant, even if I am silent, I feel comfortable, but when I meet some people, I feel uncomfortable, I have to put on a false mask, say words against my heart, or I just endure and listen to the chattering complaints, and as a result, my original good mood is also replaced by negative energy, some people, you have a hard time getting along, you can't get used to it, don't force yourself, why bother to be angry for unworthy people, why bother to be anxious for the circle that you can't squeeze into, the circle you can't get into is not suitable for you, thankless friends are not worth cherishing, Zhuangzi said, the friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, the friendship of the villain is sweet and sweet, the exchange is shallow, and the conversation is open, not concealed, not tired It is the most comfortable state when making friends, many facts have proved that comfort is the best mode of getting along with friends, such a friendship will not easily dissipate, and people who are comfortable with each other will not be conflicted because of the disagreement of the three views, will not be in conflict because they do not understand each other, and will not be cold because of the inconsistency of emotions, and the heart will not be cold because of the inconsistency of emotions, Zhou Guoping said that if you feel extra relaxed with others, and feel real lessons in the ease, I dare to conclude that you must have met your kind, even if you are engaged in completely different professional lives, your life is already very tired, don't force yourself to stay away from those who make you feel uncomfortable, make friends who are comfortable to get along with and make you better, and getting along comfortably is the guarantee of marriage Fresh agent makes friends is like this, marriage is the same, about the beautiful appearance of marriage, a thousand people have a thousand answers in their hearts, but they can't escape one point, that is, to live comfortably, husband and wife are the people in this world, although there is no blood relationship, but to be together for the longest time, so getting along comfortably is crucial, the best ending of a marriage is not two people to break through all difficulties together, only after being together, getting along comfortably is the perfection of the relationship, Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu are well-known literary couples, the two have known each other for decades, Yang Jiangsheng has a daughter who can't go home during hospitalization, Qian Zhongshu is alone at home, he went to the hospital to see his wife, he said, I'm sorry, I dripped ink on the tablecloth, I'm afraid to replace it with an ordinary person I'm going to jump up, how difficult it is to wash the ink, but Yang Jiang didn't have her, just smiled knowingly, comforted her husband, it doesn't matter, I will wash it, the next day Qian Zhongshu came to the hospital and said sorry, I smashed the lamp, Yang Jiang still smiled and said it doesn't matter, I will fix it, when he learned to draw the first match to make a fire for his wife, Yang Jiang asked him if you would use a match, Qian Zhongshu held that match, and said in a proud tone, yes, you see, I can draw a match, the two of them enjoy it like this, living and living comfortably together, they know each other, plain as water, but they are dependent on each other for life and death, and being with comfortable people is the best health preservation According to the statistics of the World Health Organization, more than 90% of diseases are related to emotions, so bad emotions are the source of all diseases, and emotions are contagious, your physical health depends on your emotions, and your good or bad mood often depends on whether you can get along comfortably with the people around you, get along with people who are comfortable with them, and be clean and comfortable, and have peace of mind, and their smiles let them People are at ease, their demeanor is warm, they feel that there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, there is no catastrophe that cannot be overcome, and you can get the best health care without taking any supplements, and when you are with uncomfortable people, you are cautious like walking on thin ice, compromise for perfection, if you are not careful, you will jump from home and chaos, it is tantamount to poisoning each other, chronic suicide, whether it is making friends or life, you can be with comfortable people, create a comfortable social circle for yourself, and create a healthy friendship environment is the best health preservation, but the premise is that we must also become such a person, know how to be kind to others, know how to respect and be humble, know how to grasp proportions, know how to be sincere and tolerant of friends, not much sincerity, good is good, the family does not have to be rich in unity, the lover does not need to be too romantic, and the rest of his life is good The heart is like a lotus flower, not water, and like the sun and moon, empty in the red dust, the mind is peaceful and calm, as clean and elegant as a lotus flower, not open for anyone, not fall for anyone, free and equal, like the sun and moon, free and equal, unhindered by the past, the present mind is not obtained, the future mind is not obtained, the mind is not to be able to be calm, with open-mindedness to release the tangled past, to calmly welcome the unknowable future, to calm the mind, you can understand yourself, to be safe and calm, to be calm is to be calm, to be calm and calm, to be calm and calm, to be calm is a kind of cultivation, and it is also a kind of calmness Cultivating things can change with the heart, from the heart to create troubles, all from the heart, sometimes in life, there must be a life, do not force those things that do not belong to you, learn to give up in time in life, a good attitude in life can make you optimistic and open-minded, can enable you to overcome the suffering you face, can make you indifferent to fame and fortune, live a peaceful and happy life, people often take themselves too seriously, they will worry about gains and losses, feel that others must understand themselves, in fact, people should look down on themselves, less self, more empathy, in order to be happy, the so-called how happy the heart is, how much tolerance, the more we get, the more other people's mouths, we can't control it, but we can hold an indifferent heart to see all the disturbances, and only then can we hear the voice of all things, and the heart is clear Only then can we see the essence of all things, precipitate our own mind, watch the changes in the situation, get along with others, pay attention to ways and methods, some things need to be endured and not angry, some people need to let not investigate, life is not a battlefield, there is no need to compete with each other, life is the dojo, experience and cultivation of the mind, there will be less understanding between people, there will be less misunderstanding, heart to heart, do not conquer each other, this is the most important problem for couples, conquest is what often happens between husband and wife, talking about who is right, pursuing who is wrong, discussing who hurt whom, who is excessive, these are taboos, good couples are always pretending to be stupid with each other, that is, to protect each other's shortcomings, and to be able to protect their shortcomings is true love, love, don't embarrass each other, don't be picky, don't accuse each other of being stupid, and be stupid all the way together, because it has been decided to identify There is nothing to understand and know, and then improve and improve, there is progress, accept and accept love, just be there for a lifetime, you can have a person to love well, how beautiful it is, don't destroy it, no matter how big things are not worth your destruction, don't move your heart on the person you love, never tell lies to your lover, never do things that destroy the atmosphere and mood, men have a normal temper, but a man's temper can be sent to heaven and earth, but not to his wife, because no matter how good or bad your mood is, others can turn around and leave, but only your lover has to accompany you to spend your time with you, spend the frustration and cold, spend this life in high spirits, you will gain a lot, lose a lot, and the person who accompanies you to the end is only There is a world that is not as big as the women around you, everyone can only slowly comprehend and learn, because there are not many people who can do it well, so don't do it, only say that you can't do it, husband and wife are of the same heart, the loess turns into gold, the family is not right or wrong, only harmony and discord, the family can prosper everything, the family is a place of love, not a place of reason, a place of reason, a place of reason, the place of reasoning is the court, the family is rooted and has a soul, the root and soul are controlled by the woman, two people have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that they will quarrel, women often say in anger, every sentence is like a knife, and the one who is willing to stay and quarrel with you, and does not want to leave you for half a step, is the man who truly loves you, the greatest force in the world is love, the most powerful weapon is to be moved, not to quarrel, not to leave, not to scold, not to be scattered, not to be beaten away, is the true love When you dislike the woman around you who is not beautiful enough, have you ever thought that many men envy her for your dead-hearted feelings, when a woman gives you everything, you should be content, she is not how handsome and rich you are, but she is ready to share joys and sorrows with you, when you dislike the man around you is not good enough, have you ever thought that his efforts day and night are to make your beloved around you have more superior living conditions, when a man is empty-handed and willing to work hard for you, you should be content, he doesn't want to be bitter, he doesn't want to be bitter, with his woman for a long time, it slowly becomes dependent, love slowly turns into family affection, even if the two of them are together, they are not as good as they were at the beginning Passion, please don't forget that there are feelings, when you want to let go, have you ever thought about why you stayed with her in the first place\ He has been together for a long time, even if he is not as loving as he was at that time, he still has to choose to stay together, have you done this to each other, women know how to stay together, men know how to be grateful, there is more tolerance in a lifetime, there will be less strife, where to find happiness in life, there is happiness in faith, there is happiness in practice, happiness in service, happiness in the heart, happiness in the heart, the heart is not asking for anything, thinking that the happiness of others is in our hearts, being a simple person is good, life is peaceful, nothing is good, the heart is not empty, there is something to do, the heart is not chaotic, the heart is not afraid of small things, the heart is not slow, the ancients said that one generation of officials, nine generations of wronged officials do a good job, do not do a good job, take the things of the common people as their own, want to leave to their children and grandchildren, these things that are not divided, are all sins, and the descendants use them but lose Blessings, so if you want your children to study, do more charity, run schools, and want your children to get rich, you need to give more relief, and if you want your children to be healthy, you need to apply more medicine, this is only good people, and when it comes to filial piety, many people are very filial, buy a lot of supplements for their parents, buy unnecessary things, and even hold banquets to celebrate their birthdays, the world seems to be lively, but it is actually unfilial, because it damages the blessings of parents, people have to kill so many people on their birthdays, and in the Republic of China, an old man died, and his son held a banquet at three hundred tables, and in a few days, the old man entrusted his dream It can be seen that although it is the money spent on the children, it is damaging the blessings of the elderly, and the parents spend a lot of unnecessary money is also the blessing of the children, which is also the blessing of the child, so don't celebrate the birthday of the child, the child can study, the parents should not be proud too early, and preach everywhere that it is necessary to be strict with the child, which is of great benefit to his growth, and excessive waste of money for the child will damage the child's blessing, not to mention that many people waste in the company, and even in the state unit, the waste is a loss of blessings, many people want to make money easily, but they don't know that this is also an overdraft, and the blessings will not last long, we must have the general idea that the blessings are shallow and have no blessings If you understand this truth, you will have a lot less pain and trouble in life  The People's Daily once angrily reprimanded college students who are still sleeping in class, either sleeping in a daze or playing mobile phones, and in their extracurricular life, they only eat snacks, watch dramas, indulge in games, and there is no figure of you in the library, and you never step into the sports field, and you never step into the workplace As for the salary, as long as you have a dream, it will rise one day, such people are not true Buddhists, but still envy others, promotion and salary increase, but with a salary of 1,000, dreaming of a monthly salary of 10,000, taking the hard-earned money of their parents to provide for the elderly, some young people in their twenties began to retire, spend the whole day with a cup of coffee, no longer learn knowledge, watch others work overtime, and laugh at a fool, regard being content with the status quo as contentment, and sadly, how many people with a monthly salary of 3,000 are satisfied with living a quiet life, but rely on their parents to provide financial support, according to the statistics of the China Center for Aging Research Center, China currently has % of young people rely on gnawing on the old to live% This month, a year-old man in Wuhan asked the society for help, saying that his son has been at home for many years and refuses to work, he is old and in good health, afraid that one day he will leave his son's life and have no place to live Not long ago, a 37-year-old female master's degree who is already a mother of two children posted on the forum to find a job, she graduated from a top university in China, worked in a foreign company for nearly ten years, because of the closure of the department, she can only find a job again, her requirements are not high, a monthly salary of 3,000 in the short term can be 3,000 in the short term, she described her work experience in the post, did scientific research cooperation management, but just did a miscellaneous registration certificate of this major, did not pass the Japanese level, but could not communicate verbally, English is okay, but it is only the postgraduate entrance examination, the English score has passed, a long time has passed, there is still no result, she said, I admit that I am very much Failure did not sharpen my wings in such a long career, so it is so miserable now, some people commented, sooner or later let the workplace mix you up, the truth that you don't advance or retreat is universal, all successful careers are the result of time and sweat, the laziness you have stolen will sooner or later become a slap in the face, the recent midlife crisis has become a hot topic, Liu Wenjun, director of the Administrative Management Teaching and Research Office of China Institute of Labor Relations, believes that middle-aged people are easy to be eliminated, mainly because their knowledge structure has been basically fixed, learning new knowledge and new skills is less efficient, and the transformation is too slow, but not everyone is at a loss when the midlife crisis comes, and those who have a skill even if they encounter it The workplace crisis can also be easily resolved, Cai Yujie is a technician in a front-line production workshop, lost her job when she was less than a year old, but she made up her mind to start anew, through self-study and participation in training courses, she obtained accounting and computer-related qualifications, with these new skills, she found an accounting job treatment, even better than the original, Xiao Chengping, who is engaged in employee selection and hiring in the enterprise, said that the social development is so fast, enterprises must continue to seek innovation and change, if there is no sense of worry, relax learning, no matter whether the age is old or young, it is inevitable to be eliminated, the British philosopher Whitehead once said that lack of enterprising spirit means degeneration, according to the data analysis of researchers at the University of Cambridge  The probability of a profession being eliminated in the future AI technology is becoming more and more developed, the probability of telemarketers being replaced by robots is the probability of a career-minded man will never indulge in tobacco, alcohol, card tables and games, women's sex, but have one or two hobbies that he is focused on, such as running, fitness, chess, playing ball, reading, etc., which can not only cultivate oneself, but also make men more attractive and make more excellent friends It is a single man, the ancients often said that if you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world, this is true, according to the research of Harvard Business School, successful people with a strong sense of happiness, their living environment is generally neat and clean, which makes people feel very comfortable, and people who are unhappy in life are often messy and unorganized at home, in fact, the room you live in is a reflection of yourself, what kind of person you will live in what kind of house you will live in, and the God of Wealth also likes to live in a bright and clean environment, look at his circle of friends, a tasteful man is absolutely calm, if his circle of friends is full of impetuous atmosphere, read a book, immediately send a circle of friends, walk 10,000 steps, immediately send a circle of friends to so-and-so The company immediately posted a circle of friends, what small award did it get, immediately posted a picture all over the circle of friends, and wanted to show everyone all his achievements, such a man is difficult to make a fortune, a truly tasteful man listened to the thunder in silence, did something great, never said it himself, it was someone else to help him, low-key and calm, how could such a man not succeed, look at his demeanor, some men will explode at the slightest disagreement, some men will speak like a spring breeze, some men will take public transportation and never give up their seats, some men will take extra care of the elderly, children and ladies, some men will die even if they are wrong, they will not admit their mistakes, some men are obviously not their fault, but stand up and admit their mistakes for the sake of the overall situation, and some men help Some men buy bags for their own women, never too much, a personable man will inevitably eat more in society, because his taste and bearing are his golden signboard, look at his women, many people say that the highest taste of a man is the woman he marries, what kind of woman you marry determines what kind of life you will live, a woman who is greedy for pleasure and extravagance, no matter how much wealth a man has, he will be defeated by her, even if a man has great ambitions, he will be entangled in trivial matters around her, and it is difficult to show his ambitions When her man is frustrated, she never scolds, but gently soothes and encourages him to make a comeback, when her man is proud, she smiles and nods, reminds him not to get carried away, there is such an explanation flower around him, the success of the man is naturally at hand, and a man with good taste in these five points is destined to have an extraordinary life

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