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A righteousness is your best protective umbrella for quitting sex

Women should quit sex







Everyone who successfully abstains from sexual misconduct must be a person who has done good deeds for a long time.


Without a firm and persistent mind to do good deeds, abstaining from sexual misconduct will surely repeat itself.

《The Book of Changes says, "A family that accumulates good deeds will surely have good fortune." There must be certain, there must be certain, there must be certain.


Good at "raising" people and nourishing people very well. Evil can destroy people, and evil accumulates to a certain extent and will definitely destroy the body.

The source of all evil "elusion" destroys all happy lives. As soon as the door to adultery opened, all kinds of disasters came. The appearance is vulgar, the body is declining, the family quarrels, the academic and career are not going well, the popularity is poor, and the consequences of being sexually impoverished are shocking. This is just a retribution in the present life, and there is endless pain waiting for the sexually impulsive person in the next life.


  

Three must-do ways to get rid of sexual misconduct


  

1.Repent and repent (Reforming mistakes is the basis for abstaining from sexual misconduct )


  

2.Stay away from evil lust (Unconditionally stay away from all evil environments, information )


  

3.Do good deeds and accumulate virtues (Practice all good deeds, do not do anything because good deeds are small )

Cleansing the mind: Repentance and repentance of the mistakes recommended by "The Great Repentance of Buddha"

Purify the mind: Stay away from all information about sexual misconduct and prevent the heart from falling into the seeds of sexual misconduct. In conjunction with the Book of Sages, we will continue to purify our minds and improve our moral mindfulness and righteousness.

Beautify the mind: practice your own actions, do good deeds and accumulate virtues. Give regular charity, develop the habit of charitable donations, and help poor and sick sentient beings.

Special reminder: Eating vegetarian food can greatly reduce desires and clear minds, which can help to abstain from sexual misconduct.

To prevent breaking the precepts in the middle:

When you are bored, find some good deeds and think about where to do good tomorrow or the next day. Or exercise and go out for more walks. You will not reach a place of pain on the way to do good.

When desire comes, think more about the consequences of adultery. Immortality not only makes oneself unlucky, but also causes one's family to suffer. I am not afraid of pain, can I bear to suffer from my family?

After doing the above points, it will be not difficult to quit adultery.

After a year of abstinence, the focus is on doing good deeds. In an era where information about sexual misconduct is flooded, without a strong and correct concept of kindness, it is easy to fall back into depravity. In the past two years of abstaining from sex, it is no exaggeration to say that it is completely a constant doing good, and it has come to this day.

Doing good deeds and virtues does not accumulate to a certain extent is not enough to eliminate the deeply rooted bad habits of sexual misconduct.

My path to abstaining from sexual misconduct is for your reference.

Before I officially started to abstain from sex, I vaguely realized the bad habit of sexual misconduct. At that time, I had no pursuit in life, and wine and sex were the highest ideal in life. Later, I got sick because of sexual misconduct, and I became scared and wanted to quit sexual misconduct. When I think about living a normal life, my fate seems to have begun to change greatly.

I have no doubts about sexual misconduct. Because at that time there seemed to be an invisible force that pushed me from the beautiful Jiangnan to the countryside of the windy and sandy wilderness in the south. Under the arrangement of my family, I went to a factory at a relative's house in the south to work.

The environment at that time: every night when I go to bed, I can clearly hear the mice running back and forth in the ceiling mezzanine, as if thousands of troops were hiding by. Mosquitoes keep surrounding themselves, and there is no need to say about all kinds of small insects.

  

The most troublesome thing is that the three people in the same dormitory are all adulterers. They often come back very late in the middle of the night, open and close the door loudly, chat about ambiguous phone calls... It was my most urgent wish at that time to be able to have a good night's sleep. If you can live in that environment, you should know how evil and sexually abused I was once.

  
Even in such a harsh environment, my heart is still not honest. The disease caused by sexual misconduct has not been treated for three months, and I don’t know if it is better or worse. I have a girlfriend in my hometown. Although I haven’t been together for a long time, I haven’t officially broken up. After healing, the scars forgot to hurt, so I fell in love with a woman in the same unit. Now, thinking about the environment, can I talk about a good woman? At that time, I didn’t know that living together without marriage was also a sexual misconduct. I committed adultery again and my work was gone soon because I had a conflict with the people in the same dormitory and made a low-level mistake. I felt embarrassed to stay there.

Later I learned that my relative wanted to help me set up a factory at that time. His company was very big. I could just take some orders from his company and make money by processing parts. Now his business is getting bigger and bigger, and he is already a "billion-plus" person. I am not good at it, and I have lost my blessings and lost my good chance.

After the factory came out, I wanted to open a stall and do business by myself. A relative wanted to help me open a store, but he suddenly fell into gambling debts. After a while, he couldn't open it and returned to his hometown. The biggest gain of that trip to the south was to start to understand Buddhism. Because I was afraid of pain in filling my teeth, I wanted to ask for a talisman, but when I saw a lot of Buddhist books, I made a connection with them and took them home to read them. So I started to come into contact with Buddhism.


The next year, I started to help in the small shop I opened at home, and I did very tiring work. Sometimes I thought it was no different from a porter. That year, I started to do good things intentionally, but I felt that there were many obstacles to doing good things, and doing bad things was extremely smooth. Once I heard that a certain place built a statue of Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, I made a wish to donate. Due to various reasons, I went to the bank several times before the remittance was successful. It can be seen that it is not easy for a person who commits sexual misconduct to do some good deeds.

  

I met another girl in the second half of that year. At the beginning, the relationship went smoothly. Later I learned that she had had many boyfriends before, and was a wife who was tyrannical and imperfect, which was indeed true.


 But at that time it seemed that it was almost obsessed. Even though my family strongly opposed it, they still lived together unmarriedly. Moreover, they live together despite their strong opposition from their family, and their relationship with their family is in a state of turmoil. I didn't go to the store to help, and I made a noise almost every day. At the end of the arguing, I saw my father crying for the first time, which shows how unfilial I was at that time.


Later I found out that the woman was chatting with someone else. (The bad one )He also kept in touch with his ex-boyfriend and soon fell in love with him. I recently learned that he seemed to have given birth to a child before. I made my parents angry for such a woman. Repentance...

It was so painful at that time that I began to copy the Diamond Sutra violently. Later that time, I should have copied more than ten Diamond Sutra and copied them whenever I have time.

Although it was very painful, life had to continue. After half a year of separation from the woman, I went to work in a unit. After that "love disaster", my mood was depressed for a while. At that time, I was just going to work and after get off work, and I didn’t pay attention to women anymore. I copied Buddhist scriptures at home in the evening and looked at Buddhist forums. I almost went to temples to offer lanterns, burn incense, worship Buddha, and give charity. Their diet was also strictly converted to vegetarian food.

During that time, everyone said that I was very young, like a college student who had just graduated. Often, his face is red and his whole body exudes vitality.

But the evil retribution of adultery has not stopped. Birds of a birds of a feather flock together is the truth. After a period of time, I found that almost all the people at the same level as me in the unit were adulterers. God’s test seemed to have begun. At the risk of being said to be abnormal, I publicly eat vegetarian food, quit sex, and believe in Buddhism. When they talk about the romance, I walk away.

    

I laughed at me for being vegetarian and malnutrition, and I laughed it off. (By the way, eating vegetarian food will not be malnourished at all. Many sports stars with extraordinary physical strength and scholars with extraordinary intelligence will have strict vegetarians, and many celebrities are also vegetarians. They will definitely not be malnourished if they are properly matched with vegetarian food. Moreover, they should also eat vegetarian food under the food safety situation of this dynasty. )

At the beginning, I did make me unsociable, but as time went by, I gradually discovered that ridicule became admiration. Many people started to chat with me on their own initiative, and many ordinary things were praised. This may be a symbol of the better popularity after abstaining from sex.


While working in the company, my parents began to urge me to get married early due to my age. Especially after a year of quitting sex, there have been more blind dates introduced. At this time, I discovered another result of adultery, and those who commit adultery cannot find a good marriage.


No matter how hard I try, I will not succeed, but I still thank God for many failures, because many people have found that they have many problems afterwards. They have a very serious history of sexual misconduct and are not suitable for getting married. If you marry someone who commits sexual misconduct and does not repent, you will definitely be unhappy after marriage.


Why do I meet such people? If I can’t do anything, I will look for it in my own way? I used to be such a person. I will understand it all by thinking about it.

But I also found that as long as I truly keep the precepts and cultivate blessings, the consequences of evil lust will become lighter and smaller. Because I introduced the blind date partner to me at the beginning of the year, many of them looked "unbearable" and became "worthy of the audience" by the end of the year. As we keep the precepts and cultivate blessings, if we still have a marriage, I believe it will definitely get better and better.

  

Now that I have left that unit, my girlfriend still has no. However, in the past two years of abstinence, my health has improved significantly and I am young and energetic. Working outside is obviously much smoother. The money is much more abundant than when I quit sex, my family no longer quarrels, and my quality of life is also improving.


To be honest, although I have quit sexual misconduct for more than two years, I find that I am subconsciously and still feel unhonest. Because when it comes to listening to music, when male and female celebrities are comparable, I download more music from female celebrities than male celebrities. No matter how long you quit, you should not be proud and careless.

Due to the limited space, there are many retributions of evil and evil, and the retributions of good and evil have not been written in detail. This is basically the case with my path to abstaining from sexual misconduct. Doing good deeds at the beginning will be more hindering, but the more you practice, the smoother you will be. The difficulty lies in the period of time when you start. If you firmly believe in it and accumulate good deeds, you can gradually overcome it.

If you do good deeds without accumulating to a certain level, it is difficult to suppress evil lust, let alone quit. My two-year path to abstaining from sexual misconduct is actually a two-year path to doing good deeds.

I deeply experienced the consequences of sexual misconduct and the joy of not sexual misconduct. Dear fellow practitioners, work hard to accumulate good deeds. When the quantitative change reaches a qualitative change, you will surely be able to eliminate evil lust and keep yourself purified. If you are physically and mentally healthy, your career and family happiness will come from your own.

Goodness is not accumulated, it is not enough to eliminate evil lust. Thank you for your blessings from Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, your disciple has gone through the second year and moved towards the third year.








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