Everyone who successfully abstains from sexual misconduct must be a person who has done good deeds for a long time.
Without a firm and persistent mind to do good deeds, abstaining from sexual misconduct will surely repeat itself.
《The Book of Changes says, "A family that accumulates good deeds will surely have good fortune." There must be certain, there must be certain, there must be certain.
The source of all evil "elusion" destroys all happy lives. As soon as the door to adultery opened, all kinds of disasters came. The appearance is vulgar, the body is declining, the family quarrels, the academic and career are not going well, the popularity is poor, and the consequences of being sexually impoverished are shocking. This is just a retribution in the present life, and there is endless pain waiting for the sexually impulsive person in the next life.
Three must-do ways to get rid of sexual misconduct
1.Repent and repent (Reforming mistakes is the basis for abstaining from sexual misconduct )
2.Stay away from evil lust (Unconditionally stay away from all evil environments, information )
3.Do good deeds and accumulate virtues (Practice all good deeds, do not do anything because good deeds are small )
I have no doubts about sexual misconduct. Because at that time there seemed to be an invisible force that pushed me from the beautiful Jiangnan to the countryside of the windy and sandy wilderness in the south. Under the arrangement of my family, I went to a factory at a relative's house in the south to work.
The environment at that time: every night when I go to bed, I can clearly hear the mice running back and forth in the ceiling mezzanine, as if thousands of troops were hiding by. Mosquitoes keep surrounding themselves, and there is no need to say about all kinds of small insects.
The most troublesome thing is that the three people in the same dormitory are all adulterers. They often come back very late in the middle of the night, open and close the door loudly, chat about ambiguous phone calls... It was my most urgent wish at that time to be able to have a good night's sleep. If you can live in that environment, you should know how evil and sexually abused I was once.
After the factory came out, I wanted to open a stall and do business by myself. A relative wanted to help me open a store, but he suddenly fell into gambling debts. After a while, he couldn't open it and returned to his hometown. The biggest gain of that trip to the south was to start to understand Buddhism. Because I was afraid of pain in filling my teeth, I wanted to ask for a talisman, but when I saw a lot of Buddhist books, I made a connection with them and took them home to read them. So I started to come into contact with Buddhism.
The next year, I started to help in the small shop I opened at home, and I did very tiring work. Sometimes I thought it was no different from a porter. That year, I started to do good things intentionally, but I felt that there were many obstacles to doing good things, and doing bad things was extremely smooth. Once I heard that a certain place built a statue of Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, I made a wish to donate. Due to various reasons, I went to the bank several times before the remittance was successful. It can be seen that it is not easy for a person who commits sexual misconduct to do some good deeds.
I met another girl in the second half of that year. At the beginning, the relationship went smoothly. Later I learned that she had had many boyfriends before, and was a wife who was tyrannical and imperfect, which was indeed true.
But at that time it seemed that it was almost obsessed. Even though my family strongly opposed it, they still lived together unmarriedly. Moreover, they live together despite their strong opposition from their family, and their relationship with their family is in a state of turmoil. I didn't go to the store to help, and I made a noise almost every day. At the end of the arguing, I saw my father crying for the first time, which shows how unfilial I was at that time.
But the evil retribution of adultery has not stopped. Birds of a birds of a feather flock together is the truth. After a period of time, I found that almost all the people at the same level as me in the unit were adulterers. God’s test seemed to have begun. At the risk of being said to be abnormal, I publicly eat vegetarian food, quit sex, and believe in Buddhism. When they talk about the romance, I walk away.
I laughed at me for being vegetarian and malnutrition, and I laughed it off. (By the way, eating vegetarian food will not be malnourished at all. Many sports stars with extraordinary physical strength and scholars with extraordinary intelligence will have strict vegetarians, and many celebrities are also vegetarians. They will definitely not be malnourished if they are properly matched with vegetarian food. Moreover, they should also eat vegetarian food under the food safety situation of this dynasty. )
At the beginning, I did make me unsociable, but as time went by, I gradually discovered that ridicule became admiration. Many people started to chat with me on their own initiative, and many ordinary things were praised. This may be a symbol of the better popularity after abstaining from sex.
While working in the company, my parents began to urge me to get married early due to my age. Especially after a year of quitting sex, there have been more blind dates introduced. At this time, I discovered another result of adultery, and those who commit adultery cannot find a good marriage.
No matter how hard I try, I will not succeed, but I still thank God for many failures, because many people have found that they have many problems afterwards. They have a very serious history of sexual misconduct and are not suitable for getting married. If you marry someone who commits sexual misconduct and does not repent, you will definitely be unhappy after marriage.
Now that I have left that unit, my girlfriend still has no. However, in the past two years of abstinence, my health has improved significantly and I am young and energetic. Working outside is obviously much smoother. The money is much more abundant than when I quit sex, my family no longer quarrels, and my quality of life is also improving.
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